Have you ever noticed that when you meet someone for the first time or when youre just getting to know them, when they talk about their mom or someone they say "my mom, my dad, etc." But once you get to know someone for a month or so, they drop the "my." They start saying "well Dad was...mom is a bitch." Stuff like that. I wonder why they do that. Does their comfort level with you cause them to nix the useless words? Just an observation.